Now that my classes are kicking in their pre-thanksgiving exams and project deadlines, I'm beginning to feel the pressure. I finally understand the expression, "Buried in work," because every time I finish something, I think of how much more work I have yet to do. Ok, so yes, the pressure has been building up in my little world. I've been overwhelmed, tired, and rather grumpy. (OK, very grumpy.) I usually respond well to pressure and stress, but I couldn't find a vent for it anyway. Normally a long run helps and puts a smile on my face for a little while; I ran for 6 miles and didn't get the desired results. That's the first time in my life running hasn't helped.
Then God sent me a solution. I got a phone call from a girl I went to high school with. She's the happiest person I have ever known. She's always smiling, laughing, and seems like she's in a perpetual hypercaffeinated state. Just talking to her for an hour completely changed my attitude, and I couldn't stop laughing at everything. And I discovered something.
This friend is completely detached from anything happening at my college or in my classes...a conversation with her is a literal getting away without the physical getting away. I was in a completely different world from Purdue, and I think that made the difference. I wasn't talking to someone who had just as much homework as me, who was just as stressed. I was getting away.
I've always heard that taking a break when stressed helps. Most people recommend working out when taking this break, so I assumed they felt better just because of the exercise and the happy endorphins and such. I usually ran to relieve stress, so I never saw how just taking a break and talking to friends helped also. There's something about removing yourself from the problem for a while and then re-approaching it later. It just clears your mind. So my advice to my fellow stressed student population: take a break, close the books, and forget about it all for a while. GET AWAY.
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